by: Pastor Jose V. Velasco
Jesus’ praying
must have impressed the disciples so deeply that one of them asked Him, “Lord,
teach us to pray” (Lk. 11:1). Prayer is the human part in our conversation with
God. In prayer we present to God our requests (Phil. 4:6). So, we begin
considering some characteristics of prayer.
We will mention
3 types of prayer, but other types may be added also.
1) Individual personal
prayer. You alone are with God. Jesus practiced this. “Very early in the
morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to
a solitary place, where he prayed” (Mk. 1:35). After feeding the 5,000 ”he went
up on a mountainside by himself to pray” (Mt. 14:23). Peter prayed alone (Acts
10:9). Jesus taught people to pray alone (Mt. 6:6). Here you may pray for
things that are so personal and private. And no one will bother how long you
pray.
2) Corporate/group
praying. Jesus taught praying with others. Jesus promised that where several
people pray together He will be in their midst and hear them (Mt. 18:19-20).
Group praying is supportive and encouraging.
3) Casual praying. This is
unplanned for praying. Out of the blue a very important concern pops up in your
mind and you pray silently. You could be at home, on a train or bus, at work,
but you pray silently. Surely God hears your prayer. Which type should we use?
All these types, and others, should be used according to circumstances and needs.
God hears them all as long as they come from a truly believing heart. Jesus
promised, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and
the door will be opened to you” (Mt. 7:7).
Paul’s
admonition was, “Pray continually” (1 Thess. 5:17). Praying must be regular. To
fulfill this it helps if you designate a specific time and place in your home
to pray. Being alone it may be in your own bed room. As a family the dining
room may do. It would be ideal for a family to pray together. The saying goes, “a
family that prays together stays together.” If this is not possible each may
pray individually according to the convenient time each has. I encourage
praying daily. Some devotional pamphlets are helpful like the Daily Bread,
Upper Room or Today. In the home children
and youths must be taught to pray.
How do we learn to pray? The Lord’s prayer is our perfect pattern for
prayer. What are some aids in learning to pray? We can learn from the prayers
of others, written or spoken. We must actually pray to learn. Much could only
be learned by actual doing. We do not learn swimming by just reading a book on
swimming. You have to actually swim. Be simple in your praying. In public do
not be shy. God looks at the sincerity of your heart, not how elaborate and
polished you pray is. Finally, ask the Holy Spirit to guide and teach you how
to pray. He is the best teacher. Prayer is the power line that connects us to
the Source of power, peace, joy,
guidance and all heavenly blessings. You must pray regularly.
Prayer: Thank you, dear God
for the gift of prayer. Help us to love and learn how to pray. May we make prayer
a very important and regular part of our daily lives. In Jesus’ Holy Name we
pray. Amen.